Journaling From The Heart
I decided the other day I think my contribution is Journaling... I find this such a therapeutic outlet and it just seems to grow more and more within me with each page I do. To me it’s so wonderful to get memories that have lived inside me out for others to share. If this is a stumbling block for you consider these ideas:
- As you journal on a page pretend you are talking to the person you think might be holding your page in their hands. Maybe it’s someone from the ‘now’ time, or maybe it’s someone generations from now that you will never know.
- Tell them from your heart what they are looking at, where the photo was taken, who these people are they are looking at, why you scrapped it. Mentally talk just as if they were sitting next to you and you were sharing one on one.
- If you have a specific memory from a time and place share it. I did this recently with a photo of my Grandpa and brother and myself. Sharing about a teddy bear that had been a part of my life for over 40 years before I decided it was ok to have him be a memory instead of a tangible item.
- Actually visualize talking to someone, that way what you write becomes so much more personable than just words on paper.
- Make connections so that people, places or things in your page become real to the person looking at it. Remember, this page was important enough for you to take the time to scrap so carry your feelings forward. What you wrtie may be the only way generations from now will be able to relate to the people you loved, places that made or heart stope or moments in time you just can't stop thinking about.
- If you’re unable to scrap all those hoards of old photos you just inherited or all those eons of kids photos that had been hiding in albums and boxes get them out and journal about them. (Perhaps number them and correspond the number to a journal book and keep the photos and journal together). If you never get around to scrapping them, someday someone will pick up what you started and thank you over and over again. It’s how I feel when I turn a photo over and someone has written the who’s and why’s on the back. It’s a treasure that I can pass forward, you do the same… journal journal journal.
- And lastly talk to those around you before you’re like me and ‘wishing’ you had. So many have passed on and with them wonderful memories that could be shared are lost forever. I am constantly on the phone with my Mom asking her to explain this photo or that place. (Mom will soon be 96 and still has a stunning memory so don’t discount the older generation, they will love you for caring enough to ask and you will be sooooo glad you did!) I Ask Mom to just talk and share as I write things down. So many memories, so many wonderful times in her life and my Dad’s I can now pass forward to my great great grandchildren. They won’t know her in real time, but they will feel her presence in the words that I journal on the pages I make. And hopefully, if I do my job right, they will love her and feel as if they knew her! In that way that stranger who they are looking at will once again become real.
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